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Don't Wait Until You're Dying, to Start Living

10/19/2023

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​Most people trudge through life postponing their deepest desires, chasing a nebulous "someday" when everything will fall into place. The problem with this approach is that life is unpredictable, fleeting, and always changing. The harsh truth is, there's no guarantee we will make it to that “someday." So, why wait until the end of the journey to appreciate the path?

The Reality of Regret
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A common theme among individuals nearing the end of their life is a painful regret. It's not uncommon to hear elderly individuals lament the risks they didn’t take, the love they didn’t express, or the world they didn’t explore. If we could distill the wisdom from their experiences, the message would be loud and clear: start living now.
The Mirage of the "Perfect Moment"

We often tell ourselves, "I'll start living when I get that promotion," or "Once the kids leave home," or "When I retire." These milestones can indeed be significant, but they also act as mirages, constantly shifting further into the distance. If you're always waiting for the perfect moment, you might just end up waiting forever.

Embrace Uncertainty

A fully lived life isn’t one where everything goes according to plan. It’s in the spontaneity, the challenges faced, and the unexpected joys where life truly blossoms. While it's essential to have goals, it's equally vital to be adaptable and open to the unpredictable turns life offers. Embrace uncertainty as an invitation to adventure.

Reevaluate Your Priorities

Take a moment to reflect on what truly matters to you. What are your deepest desires, dreams, and aspirations? Once you identify these, make them a priority. Rearrange your life, if necessary, to accommodate the pursuits that bring you genuine happiness and fulfillment.

Tiny Steps to a Fuller Life

Starting to live doesn't necessarily mean making drastic changes overnight. It can be as simple as:
  1. Expressing gratitude daily. Counting your blessings can shift your perspective and make you more appreciative of the present.
  2. Trying something new every week. Whether it’s a new hobby, food, or a short trip, novelty brings excitement.
  3. Connecting with loved ones. Deepen your relationships by spending quality time and expressing your feelings.
  4. Prioritizing self-care. Physical health, mental well-being, and emotional balance are all critical components of a life well-lived.

Life is an ever-evolving tapestry of experiences, emotions, and encounters. Every day presents an opportunity to weave a vibrant thread into this masterpiece. By fully embracing each moment and valuing the journey over the destination, we can ensure a life filled with rich memories, lessons, and joys. So, don't wait for a tomorrow that might never come. Live now, cherish now, and love now. Don’t wait until you're dying to start living.

Ken
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